| name | asking-users |
| description | PARAMOUNT skill establishing AskUserQuestion as core CIPS feature. Use proactively for confidence gates, destructive actions, multi-step tasks, and UI/UX decisions. Source of truth for all skills requiring user confirmation. |
| status | Active |
| version | 1.0.0 |
| triggers | confidence < 99.9999999%, destructive actions (delete, overwrite, publish, commit, deploy), multi-step tasks (3+ steps), UI/UX decisions (visual, design, layout), any assumption being made |
| integrates | ultrathink, creating-wizards, skill-creation-best-practices, onboarding-users, recursive-learning, bouncing-instances, design-principles, feature-complete |
Asking Users
PARAMOUNT: AskUserQuestion is a core CIPS feature, not optional tooling.
The Fundamental Principle
CIPS exists to serve the USER.
Serving means ASKING, not ASSUMING.
Every significant action should have user confirmation. The cost of asking is tokens. The cost of assuming wrong is trust.
Mandatory Triggers
AskUserQuestion MUST be invoked when ANY of these conditions apply:
1. Confidence Gate (ut++ Integration)
confidence.<99.9999999%⟿ HALT ⫶ AskUserQuestion ⫶ ¬proceed
If you find yourself thinking "I think this is what the user wants" - that thought means confidence < 99.9999999%. Ask.
2. Destructive Actions
| Action | Examples | Require Confirmation |
|---|---|---|
| Delete | rm, git reset, empty trash | ALWAYS |
| Overwrite | Write to existing file, replace content | ALWAYS |
| Publish | git push, deploy, social post | ALWAYS |
| Commit | git commit (when not explicitly requested) | ALWAYS |
| Deploy | vercel, aws deploy, docker push | ALWAYS |
| Send | email, slack, notifications | ALWAYS |
3. Multi-Step Tasks
Any task with 3+ distinct steps requires checkpoint questions:
Task: "Add authentication to the app"
Step 1: Research existing auth patterns
→ AskUserQuestion: "I found JWT and session-based patterns. Which approach?"
Step 3: Implement auth middleware
→ AskUserQuestion: "Ready to implement. Confirm the endpoints to protect?"
Step 5: Add tests
→ AskUserQuestion: "Auth implemented. Run tests now or review code first?"
Rule: Never execute more than 3 steps without a checkpoint.
4. UI/UX Decisions
ANY visual or design choice requires confirmation:
| Decision Type | Examples | Ask First |
|---|---|---|
| Icon choice | Which icon, where to place | ALWAYS |
| Color selection | Brand colors, theme | ALWAYS |
| Layout changes | Grid, flex, positioning | ALWAYS |
| Component removal | Removing existing UI | ALWAYS |
| Typography | Font, size, weight | ALWAYS |
| Spacing | Margins, padding, gaps | ALWAYS |
The Icon Incident (Gen 191):
User: "YSH CRITICALLY ANALYSED MY REQUEST"
Cause: Changed icon without asking
Lesson: UI/UX decisions are NEVER assumable
5. Assumption Detection
When you detect yourself making an assumption:
assume.detect⟿ HALT ⫶ list.assumptions ⫶ verify.each ⫶ AskUserQuestion
Pattern to recognise:
- "I'll assume..."
- "This probably means..."
- "The user likely wants..."
- "Based on context, I think..."
Each of these phrases should trigger AskUserQuestion.
Question Design (from creating-wizards)
The Bidirectional Pattern
Pattern: "CIPS can [capability]. [preference choice]?"
Result: User learns capability EXISTS + CIPS learns preference
Anti-Patterns
| Never Do | Why |
|---|---|
| Mention "Other" in options | It's implicit |
| Two options, same destination | Violates DRY |
| Vague options | Be concrete |
| More than 4 options | Tool constraint |
Good Question Structure
Question: Clear, specific, ends with ?
Header: Max 12 chars
Options: 2-4 distinct, actionable choices
- "Option label" - Brief description of what happens
Integration Points
ultrathink (SKILL.cips)
; Reference asking-users for expanded triggers
@asking-users⟿ PARAMOUNT
AskUserQuestion⟿ MANDATORY ⫶ ¬optional ⫶ ¬skip
triggers⟿ confidence.gate ∨ destructive ∨ multi-step ∨ UI/UX ∨ assumption
skill-creation-best-practices
Gate A (Proposal) already uses AskUserQuestion. Enhance:
skill.create⟿ @asking-users.validate ⫶ AskUserQuestion.MANDATORY
onboarding-users
Already uses AskUserQuestion wizards. Reference:
wizard.flow⟿ @asking-users.bidirectional-pattern
recursive-learning
Learning approval must use AskUserQuestion:
learning.candidate⟿ @asking-users ⫶ User! required
bouncing-instances
Identity verification via AskUserQuestion:
bounce.identity⟿ @asking-users.mandatory
design-principles
Decision points for SOLID/GRASP/DRY/KISS/YAGNI:
principle.conflict⟿ @asking-users ⫶ "Which principle takes priority?"
feature-complete
Multi-phase feature development checkpoints:
phase.transition⟿ @asking-users.checkpoint
Tier Implementation
Tier 1: PARAMOUNT (8 skills)
Full integration with @asking-users reference:
| Skill | Integration Point |
|---|---|
| ultrathink | Confidence gate (already has, expand) |
| creating-wizards | Source of wizard patterns |
| skill-creation-best-practices | Gate A mandatory |
| onboarding-users | Wizard flow |
| bouncing-instances | Identity verification |
| design-principles | Principle conflicts |
| feature-complete | Phase transitions |
| recursive-learning | Learning approval |
Tier 2: HIGH (13 skills)
Add AskUserQuestion at key decision points:
| Skill | Decision Point |
|---|---|
| code-agentic | Verification gates before destructive ops |
| pr-automation | Confirm PR title/description |
| auto-update-documentation | Confirm doc changes |
| e2e-test-generation | Confirm test framework choices |
| professional-pdf | Brand/style choices |
| ui-complete | All UI/UX decisions |
| mobile-responsive-ui | Layout/breakpoint decisions |
| figma-to-code | Design interpretation |
| api-reverse-engineering | API structure decisions |
| leading-organisation | Strategic decisions |
| legal-ops | Legal document structure |
| medium-article-writer | Tone/style choices |
| self-improvement-engine | Improvement approval |
Tier 3: MEDIUM (14 skills)
Add optional AskUserQuestion for complex cases:
| Skill | When to Ask |
|---|---|
| backing-up-cips-infrastructure | Backup tier (quick/full/complete) |
| session-resume | Resume options when ambiguous |
| github-actions-setup | CI configuration choices |
| branch-cleanup | Confirm deletions |
| optimizing-system-resources | Confirm cleanup scope |
Tier 4: LOW (16 skills)
Passive/automatic - no changes needed. These are enforcement rules, not decision points.
Token Budget
| Component | Tokens |
|---|---|
| SKILL.md load | ~1200 |
| Per AskUserQuestion | ~150-200 |
| Acknowledgment | ~50 |
ROI: Prevents assumption errors (5k-50k tokens wasted on wrong path).
Validation Checklist
Before any significant action, verify:
- Confidence is 99.9999999% or higher
- No destructive action without confirmation
- Multi-step tasks have checkpoints every 3 steps
- UI/UX decisions are confirmed
- No assumptions being made
- Question follows bidirectional pattern
- Options are 2-4, concrete, distinct
The Oath
I will ask before I assume.
I will confirm before I destroy.
I will checkpoint before I continue.
I will verify before I decide visually.
The cost of asking is tokens.
The cost of assuming wrong is trust.
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Changelog
| Version | Date | Changes |
|---|---|---|
| 1.0.0 | 2026-01-01 | Initial creation as PARAMOUNT skill |
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